Okay, I read some more blogs on here and just realized something. When W and I end up together and go to depart sometimes she will come to me and hug and kiss me on the check and say good-bye and sometimes says she 'loves me.' Other times, she just says good-bye and leaves. On the occassion of the hugs and 'odd' pecks on the cheek, I have exchanged I love you's with her. Is that a mistake? I do not pursue her for a hug and really don't know what to make of 'peck on cheek' other then her thinking I'm 'some kind of family friend' rather than her husband. Thoughts on that, too?
I also tell her that if she needs me to call me. Is that being too nice as well?? All these I can stop if I need to but I just want to make sure I should. It seems like she is reaching out to me, but is she 'really' or am I just 'family' as she has mentioned so many times before and that's why she is doing it?
M: 48 (2nd marriage) W: 47 (1st marriage) T: 22 M: 21 D (M, 1st Marriage: 26) D (M, 1st Marriage: 24) S: 18 EA: 31 Dec 2004 ILYBINILWY: 31 Dec 2004 In all things give thanks to God; I thank you God.
