Some progress after 2+ months of DBing

[Wendylon]

You're right, Tori, I could definitely do with validating H more. I'm sure it would make a difference.

H just asked me if he could go out for a drink with a friend tonight because it's H's birthday on 2nd Jan and they wanted to celebrate it tonight. At first, I said sure but then thought that I'd pbly feel a bit hard done by if I'm home alone with S13 tonight. S17 and D15 are going out. I know we don't celebrate New Year's Eve really but neither would I want to be on my own with H out. I told him that I'd prefer if they went another night. I'm not even sure I believe it's with his male friend. Who knows? He looked disappointed and a bit angry. It's pbly not great DBing on my part but I knew I'd feel resentful.

It's not too late for me to tell him it's fine for him to go out so if anyone reads this and thinks I made a huge mistake, please let me know!