Had family dinner out at our favorite restaurant last night. My D15 is in town and since she missed the cruise, W wanted to do something nice with her. It was very thoughtful of her and a good time was had by all. We even got home in time for me to watch the WAS/DAL game, which W was worried about (again, pretty thoughtful of her).
Kids are having some friends over tonight so I think we'll just help with snacks and watch a movie or two. It's snowing pretty good and I have to travel tomorrow, so seems like a good night to stay in.
I booked a trip to Jamaica for W and I the other day. I've been looking at the trip for 6 months and the deal was just too good to pass up, so I just got the insurance and booked it. It'll be W's x-mas present next year assuming we're not D'd. And if we are, I may go anyway.
I am going to discuss the D with W this week and let her know I'm hiring an attorney. With x-mas and our trip, our finances are in a bit of a mess, so I figure at a minimum, I need to let her know I'm spending more money. At that point, she can decide if she wants to discuss it, postpone it, cancel it, or whatever. I'm not going to ask her to do anything. I'm just going to assume she's going thru with it and act accordingly.