25 and others here is a scenario where I struggle. Happening today often. I ask W a question either related to kids or animals and I get completely ignored. I mean crickets.
I ignore her when she does it but its rude and its not like I'm asking for conversation piece . I'm asking question related to kids.
Sometimes I feel like saying did you hear me? I can see if I asked her how her day went but this is question about kids or pet
I get taking focus off her but we have to have some communication??????
Obviously you can't force her to talk, but I agree, especially regarding the kids there are things she needs to be aware of or allowed to have a say in.
I would advise not ignoring her non comment, unless you want to continue to receive more of the same. I would respond in a calm and courteous manner, acknowledging the fact that you offered important information, and she refused to comment.
Next time she gives you the silent treatment, wait a few seconds and try this:
"Ok, I thought this matter was important and that you should know about it/have a say in it. Unless you want to discuss otherwise, this is what I intend to do." and leave it at that. Don't stand around waiting for response, because that's pressure. Leave the room, give her her space.
You did your part of being a responsible parent, you can't force her to respond. My guess is after a few times of making a note of her non comment on important matters, she will begin to say something.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
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