not sure where to go from here

[tiredndrained]

as a follow up things getting progressively worse...H sleeps out every night w no explanation but still swears not w OW...try not to get mad but i camt help flipping out when my sons aged 7 and 11 are very upset about it. H has been nasty to the boys as well. I feel like he angry w everything bc he has no job our finances are in the toilet n I think the OW did dump him...at least that what she told me. Last week his car got repossesed bc...oops I missed
a payment...i didnt think bank would take it for one payment but in light of everything i cant s ay im too upset. He blames me for that too. Got in huge argument bc he didnt come home Sat night n last night he did same thing leaving me hanging in morning w my kids when i had to go to work. i left them alone n called him. He showed up home an hr later n said he did on purpose bc he was mad at me for causing the argument the prior day. The kids dont even want to b around him. No one thinks i should stay w him but I keep trying. Am I wasting time? He clearly having MLC n fits definition to a T. Hes not the same. My older son keeps asking what happened to him.