Walking the path to my own happiness

[mamabird]

More progress on the den yesterday. We moved the old bookcase into the master bedroom. H helped with that and also made the meals yesterday while I focused on chores. For the first time he spent time in the den watching TV instead of his bed.

My father invited me, H and the boys to join him and his wife for dinner tonight. H snottily declined. H said that if the boys decided to sleep over at their grandparents, then he would go to a NYE party that we were invited to. I told H to go to the party regardless; I would not be joining him.

Fact is, I've gone to that party 2 or 3 times, and I never have much fun. I don't know anyone there, and without H to rely on, I can't imagine having much of a good time. H and I went to a party "together" prior to Xmas with a lot of people I knew, and it was still an icky feeling being there within his presence.

So tonight, I'll be home in my PJs and may not even make it to midnight, but I'm perfectly fine with that. Plenty of GAL in my life these days. I've been seeing lots close friends over the holidays and last night I went to a comedy club and wasn't home until 1 am.

I hope you all have a wonderful New Year. 2013 is going to be a fresh start for all of us. I've never been happier to put a year behind me!