I hear ya my d's are not much in to their Mom right now they don't want to spend much time with her...I think bustarama is right though that you need to act as if you alright with this around the kids...have you? It is something I have not done...wringing my hands hoping she will come back it has made them have resentment towards there Mom and has pushed her into a corner where she now feels like she has to make a decision. W thinks I am making them against her which makes her angry towards me..not a good thing I think.
