It's been awhile since I've posted and quite a bit has happened. Well I'll get to the point quickly. Last post H decided to move out and on with his life. With that, I too decided to move on and worked extra hard on GAL and focusing on me. And I mean focusing on me and only me to the point where H even said he felt that I have moved on and did not care for him anymore. Stood my ground on the boundaries I set, met some new friends, excluded H from my FB, did not call, text or ask H for anything. No ILY, No cooking, No laundry, Nothing. Then something.. H said he made the worst mistake of his life, etc, etc, etc.... He sincerely apologized and said the A was over. Said he made it clear to OW that he did not want to lose me and would whatever he needed to save our M. I did not ask but H provided full disclosure. I did not immediately agree to reconcile because I was doing such a good job at GAL that it was no longer a priority to me. I can say that GAL is crucial to DB success.
