tori is right btw that you are still not in the db mindset. you uneed to get where you not only accept that he does not want the R but as a matter of fact that you also see that as the best thing for you. that you are happy as a clam without him in your life and you have had an awakening and hope he is just as happy as you are. And you are happy to facilitate co-parenting in your new separate lives.

It feels wrong. It is how you will prevail.

Not by pitying yourself or him.

Me-53
W-49
D22,D18,D15
T-Since-12/2001
Married-9/2004
She Moved Out-5/28/2010
Piecing start-04/2011
Now-together
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