Hey. I dealt with something similar. Per my coach, and DB rules, you must convey you understand he's done. So make it okay for him to pick up his stuff. I would personally leave with the kids and do some GALing, but if you don't want to do this, then put all the stuff together in the garage or something like that. That's what I did. My H was surprised when I did this, but he actually came closer to me after that. The main message is: "I get it. I know you don't want me or our M." I know it's not what you want, NLW, and that it hurts terribly, but this is what you must convey.
