sandi at least at the moment, yes it would still be a deal breaker. As for a couple of months down the road if we can start making progress, I dont know. As of right now, I dont want to initiate any discussion about a PA unless a counselor is present. As for the EA, I'm not sure whether she is still involved. She says she isnt and again I dont want to initiate any discussion about the EA without a third party present. I had a pretty bad jealousy problem and right now as I am working on my own problems, if I can get over constantly wanting to know what she is doing or if she contacting someone, I will not make any progress in solving my own issues.
