Edited to add: I only just now saw your post directly above--don't know how I missed that. Please know that I don't mean to say anything in your approach above is wrong. I think all your plans and positivity are great! But I do think you have to be cautious, and like I said, keep your eyes and ears open.
M45 Bomb 6/09; EA 6/10; Divorced 1/11 Proud single mom of 7 little feline girls and one little feline boy "Fall down 53 times. Get up 54." -- Zen saying