The right results are over she is willing to try. Nothing has worked. I have asked her if she would like to go to diner a few times just to talk about what each of us has been up to. But she was "unavaible". I did send her a christmas card and wishes her merry christmas but she did not respond. Could not even say merry Christmas to me. Now our house is going to closing and I have ask a few times what she wants from the house. And she has yet to give me an answer. Told her that I was going to jave a tag sale and she send a text telling me I cannot do thT without her expressed permission. I and losing my mind. I am now on medication to hepl me deal with this. Try to find a new place to live, trying figure out what to do with. Threebedroom house full of stuff. She called me the day said she had a few things she wanted to base on and that she would call me later but did not. I have been reading this book called " disarming the narcissist" realizing that is what is was living with. I know that I cannot change her she needs to change for herself. I know that I contributed to this just as much. But after reading through numerous things and four therapist telling the same thing I can only draw that one conclusion. She needs someone to hate in her life and that person right now is me. I am an easy target. She still has not file the divorce. Maybe she is waited for the six months that would be jan 21.
