I'm not sure what you read, but just to clarify, H has been the one that has lied and destroyed my trust. You're really being a great person by taking the approach of "giving" like you are. I confess that I'm not there right now. I'm still trying to heal and work on myself and don't have anything in me right now to go above and beyond.
Now that's honesty, work on you and eventually you may be able to work on ya'll.
You can not change your past, but you can ruin a perfectly good present by worrying about the future.