I will SM34 but I have to run out for a few hours and will tonight. One thing though is they say not to criticize OM/OW to your spouse. This will only justify their position and defend them. Don't make it personal with them. You are in tough as this R with OM has a tie in to her best friend. Don't go to her friend at all....stay away. Though I am pretty sure my W has someone on the go, I am not certain who. I am not even certain it is with original OM from almost 2 years ago....but there is something going on. I have backed off from trying to figure it out as I need to deal with me and my girls.


M17 yrs.
me49
xW47
d15
d11

BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out)
Therapy 9 months (tried 2)
BD2- May/12(sep)
Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50
Sold home - Aug/13
Court #2 - Dec/13
Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again
We settled.