The house is for sale. So sad, Family is breaking.

[FloydMan]

Hi RubyTuesday,
Thanks for always being there for me. Why would she be buying time? Is it to sort more things out like financials etc? She tells friends that "she just wants to get this process over with" but this won't do that. Her lawyer has not contacted mine in over a month now. We were supposed to have financial statements completed and done by now too. We have both been working on them but neither of us has completed them. Her friend told me she is PO's that I am seeking "full custody". Well, funny enough that is not true. Also in Canada here (as you know fellow Canuck) it does not work that way and is not a term here in Ontario. We had agreed to 50/50 on everything until she got a litigation lawyer (not collaborative family lawyer) and I only countered with what was her demand of 75/25% access and primary residence, 50/50 Joint Custody (which is decision making etc). Seems she does not know what she is doing legally or financially (even though she is a bank manager and has put us in a financial mess). She does not understand that this is a 1-2 year process through the courts.