Yes you are right FloydMan. Please stop by my thread and let me know of any ideas/solutions/thoughts you have. I am trying to get more traffic and more opinions but my thread gets lost all the time and many others seem to get more feedback than I do. I started a new thread today because my old one reached the limit, but majority of those posts where me journal ling lol.
I am rooting for you man. You have daughters like I do and I think it is especially important for us to try, to give it everything you've got. Your daughters need the best possible chance of learning how a "normal" family operates, and also skipping the lesson of 'when the going gets tough, you get out'. My wife went through her mother leaving her father when she was 13 years old, and she swore up and down that would NEVER be her. But, here she is, doing the exact same thing. Unfortunately what she learned from her parents situation is that if you are unhappy, you leave, not work on making your marriage happy!
You can hang in there a little while longer. Your wife doesn't want to sell the house! If she did then she would low ball the price. Play along with it, lets see where she goes with this!
Me, H-34 now 38 W-32 now 35 T-13 now 18 years M-6 now 9 Daughter 3 years now 7 Bomb 11/27/12 - OM 1 year in house separation Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017