Thanks SM34....positive thoughts to you too. Yes, similar in a lot of ways. My W denies having anyone now, but I doubt that. It would make her look bad through the process and to family and friends. She does not stay out all night, but she didn't when she had the A going on eitehr, that made time in afternoons and early evenings. Let's not be doormats. Detach and don't do her any favours. It took me a long time to do that but I do feel I have more of a backbone now and confidence is returning day by day. Your W is pretty brash and open about OM. My W cannot be honest with anyone, including herself.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
