So this might seem odd and it really does to me but thus far the other night seems to have really worked. I don't want to get my hopes up but things have been going really well. For the first time in awhile she told me she loved me. She is talking like she wants me to stay in the house. Like I said I'm not getting my hopes up this could be a fluke weekend so to speak. I'm going to keep going with the whole plan of moving on and see how things are when the time comes.