SOunds like the breakdown of our R's were for very similar reasons. ANd, if I were to guess, I think we are in good company w a lot of others on here for similar reasons.
I think in response to your thoughts about applying Sandi's rules is that we are all capable of hearing them & understanding them, but not sure that we are capable of applying them until we are ready. That's why so many of us make the same mistakes in the beginning.
When does weakness yield to strength?
I know one thing for sure, if I didn't have my kids I would be in much worse shape in terms of trying to stay strong. As the LB S you HAVE to be strong if you have kids. They need you and you need them.
Glad you see being a strong dad as important and yes, it is appealing to other women.
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.
