HI, met. I think your W agreeing to have dinner w you was a good baby step forward.
And, the fact that she is thinking about moving back despite her current feelings is good too, even w the idea of separate bedrooms.
Try not to focus on the negatives (as we all do) b/c we are so concerned about the possible down-the-road end results of all this. NOne of us can predict our futures. Try to keep a PMA as much as possible.
Think about how YOU will feel if she does move back in. Can you continue to give her LOTS of space? She will need this!
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.