If your W considered it an EA and was hurt by it, it's an EA. I thought you had been through that topic again, and again, and again, which is why I was frustrated that you aren't listening. If you are, you seem to ask the same questions over and over month after month into years.
Yes, you had an EA. You developed loving thoughts for someone outside your marriage and wrote her a poem, which your W found. That is big trouble in a marriage. Huge. That is an EA. Yes.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
