OW has sent cupcakes and toys home with H for our kids. I can't take them away because the kids don't get it. After a while those cheap, crappy toys were forgotten and somehow found their way to the garbage, as did the cupcakes. The OW being a substitute mom probably won't last, but you being the real mom will.
When I get upset I fast-forward to the moments when I know the words "you're not my mom" will be uttered. My kids are very attached to me. They know what's real and what isn't. I try to have faith in my kids and God. Pray BK. Pray and you will get the answer you need.
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"
