GM, I'm sorry you are having a difficult time right now. It's difficult to see how they remove everything from their lives, just as we peel an apple or remove the skin from an onion. In order for her to get to the root of her problems, she has to remove each layer of herself and her life in order to get to the core. Unfortunately, this is not a journey that you were invited on, nor would you want to be in her shoes. It is a very painful journey for her, i.e., far more painful than she is letting on.
I know you are in pain and it's heartbreaking to go through this, but feel your pain and release it. In order for you to heal, you have to go through the pain as you can't walk around it. You will get stronger in time.
Please take care of yourself.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
