Why didn't you try to organize a game like apples to apples or something? Could you have looked to see if a movie was playing? What was going on in town that the family could have done together? Is it someone else'e responsibility to inject quality time together? If it bothers you, is it your responsibility to try???

I hope you find peace in your quest, unfortunately it takes two to make it work and it sounds like you both could care less. Like your both waiting for the other to change.

You can not change your past, but you can ruin a perfectly good present by worrying about the future.