"Yes I think she was trying to compensate for lack of emotional fulfillment with more sex."
Sex is how she expresses her emotions. It's the ultimate high for her. Next time get her sex toys or something else to fulfill that need.
"She wanted sex every day it every otherness at leading, and even her therapist suggested that this was not a very common amount for a couple in their thirties with kids. The therapist even suggestedvthatvshe might be hyper sexual. "
You W likes sex. Period. Stop acting like it's some kind of abnormality.
The emotional connection she has with the OM is a fantasy which stirs ideas of how great the sex COULD be. In fact, because he can't "perform" she's left WANTING. It's like telling a kid that she can't have candy. The candy might taste like crap in reality, but in their mind, they fantasize about how great it's going to taste.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.