Hi Regretful, you sound like you are in a good place. I agree that sometimes some people come into our lives for certain reasons. I have thought about that with regards to my H...maybe we were just meant to have our kids together and thats it. Its a different perspective for sure.

I don't know yet if I fully believe that, but I do know we were meant to have kids together. The rest? I am not sure yet.

I have had moments of feeling like I am on the outside looking in too. And when I do, I would much rather stay on the outside given the way things are right NOW!

I love your thread title Regretful. It is our own path to happiness indeed.

((((( )))))

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home