I agree with you about not getting things done after giving more responsibility for things, especially the kids (hey, they asked for it). I see that in my H a lot. Mostly that he is not 100 percent 'there' when he is with them. His d@mn phone is always in his hand ready to text the OW and his kids are right there asking him to play.
Before we arrived in Germany he sent me a text saying how 'excited' he was to see the kids...'he can't wait'.
The next day after we arrived my D must have asked him at least 7 times to play and he ignored her. If thats excitement....
I agree, its like they don't take it seriously.
Anyway, you seem like you are in a good place and I am happy to hear it. Thinking of you a lot.
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TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home
