You are a good dad. This is all so new to everyone. D will adjust, she will, and she sounds like a really strong little kid. Just keep being there for her, it is the most important thing you can do. I was 7 when my parents D and I have to tell you I don't remember the details too well now.
Interesting how perceptive the children are. My S9 said to me tonight, "it's really the stress and tension between you two that's the worst thing; you should just hurry up and get a D. This relationship is like a rotten apple." I am sure your D7 feels that tension and stress too; she is scared about what will happen to her, but just keep her safe and close and above all, love her and make sure she knows you love her and her brother no matter what.
Me54, H53 M 23, T 25 S20, S18 BD: April 2024 Moved out: August 2024
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