Will write more to you soon. Please use the "Preview Post" function to check your posts before you click "Submit" and post them. Sometimes it's rather difficult to read your posts when everything has been auto "corrected" .
Mr. Bond is being tough but fair with you, and he's right. We have to understand what to do, step by step, but more importantly why you do it.
I read before that you think your wife is keeping you as a Plan B. This is probably very true and has Bond said, you have to make it lovingly clear to your Mrs. that you will not share her. In your thoughts, attitude, actions and spirit.
Me: 46 W: 46 T: 23 M: 20 DS12 DD11 DS5
W left: 01/28/08 Discovered OM: 02/26/08 W back for 9 days: 04/08 W returned 05/21/08 EA/PA - 01/08-07/09 W's MLC 2008-2014 (realised this much later)