After reading what sandi posted, I reflected back on my sitch. What she posted applied to me. It wasn't until I stopped doing family outings with my W and began living my life for myself and our children. That was when my sitch shifted.
My W wanted us to celebrate our children's birthday parties together. I didn't want any part of it. I let her know that I didn't think it was a good idea and I would be doing something separate. I would only see my W during exchanges.
I was sincere in my actions. It wasn't a tactic. At that point I had accepted that my M was over and was looking forward to putting that chapter of my life behind me.
Not necessarily giving any advice. Simply sharing my experience.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
