Yes I think she was trying to compensate for lack of emotional fulfillment with more sex. She wanted sex every day it every otherness at leading, and even her therapist suggested that this was not a very common amount for a couple in their thirties with kids. The therapist even suggestedvthatvshe might be hyper sexual. It started if as fun but then sometimes when I wasn't in the mood because I was exhausted, I still tried to relieve her frustration through oral sex which is the only way she orgasms anyway but then once it was finished she souls moan and whimper when I didn't follow it with bad sex. So I started feeling like I needed to perform like a machine and I tried to. But then one time I was so exhausted and sleepy and so turned off by the nagging and being compared to the supposed normal guys who would kill for sex every day, I had one night where I couldn't perform. My equipment wasn't cooperating! That was scary for be because I have never had that problem. I freaked out and she took it as me no being attracted to get anymore.
There was tune when we were much younger, the roles were reversed. Her birth control was lowering her libido to almost non existent. I was understanding and patient and never made her feel bad about it. Of course now when thus topic comes up she makes a point to say that she always satisfied be even when her libido was low, and u must not love her enough it I would do the same. I tried to tell her that due to obvious differences in anatomy, it us much easiest for a woman to have sex without being into it, than it us for a man. When I say I was always willing to satisfy you orally but you push it so much in me that I feel like I am a sex you, she says and normal man who us attracts yo a woman can be ready yo go at anytime. So we kind reached a stale mate. We had awesome sex once a week when u was horny and ready but it wasn't enough for her. So when you consider that OM isn't providing any orgasms for her and she hanging with it, she misbehave been compensating for lack if emotional fulfillment with notecard.
Me, H-34 now 38 W-32 now 35 T-13 now 18 years M-6 now 9 Daughter 3 years now 7 Bomb 11/27/12 - OM 1 year in house separation Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017