I am in a similar place with the whole friend thing. I am wondering how they will think anything would be different if you don't act like a friend. Someone who listens, who takes a interest in their daily lives. Especially if they think you didn't do those things when you were together. Am I way off thinking that you need to show them those positive changes before you really start pulling back. I am not sure how to act friendly without being friends. Do I just stop showing any interest at all? Is it "hi, bye, thanks for dropping the kids off." No questions about work, family, friends or anything of the sort.
I don't mean to hijack suckers thread, although we seem to be struggling with the same thing.
Me 37/W 32 S 5 D 4 ILYBNILWY 5/12 Sep 8/12 Starting to find myself 11/12 on
