When you give up thats when they come round and realize what they're losing.
Its OK to be tired of fighting....just don't get tired of living for yourself!!!
HI Angel - I found this quote you wrote and really have been holding on to it for about a month now. Especially that's it's ''ok" to be tired of fighting.
I have stopped fighting and now I can see clearer, but what I see is that there is no M, or R here anymore. My H is so changed and adamant to stay this way that I see very clearly now.
I read here that sometimes you wonder if you should have quit, you have a young D, I get your concerns, only time will tell for the two of you, if it's good you stay (you & D).
Me, I don't have young children, I have given myself permission not to fight anymore. Your great words of hope that they see what their lossing will not happen for me, and that's ok because I see clearly now that I stopped fighting.
My best to you! dm
The past can't be ahead of you in the future. You don't have to figure it all out, just pick a direction. What's next...I don't know but I can't wait!