Thanks for the tip. I hadn't come across this Lovebusters idea yet. I do have His Needs, Her Needs on its way to me. In fact, I ordered a box full of relationship books in a boxing day sale online. I finished the four books I got from the library. Decided to hold off reading more since they just get my mind racing, and I don't have much outlet (ie, W not ready to discuss) for it right now. But I'm looking forward to diving into the new ones. I've also ordered my own copies of the two library books I really liked: SSM and 5LL. I'll re-read them, and hopefully get W to try them out.