Feel betrayed by my own son

[peacetoday]

yes I too agree--I would also and did feel very upset with ow having anything to do with my kids
but

as hard as it is try to work toward acceptance of everyones choices

It takes time

I would too try to work things out with son, allowing him to feel comfortable with his R with xh and new wife
Everyone does know the truth and OW is the one who has to live with her self..
karma will get her and you can be free..you are already half there b/c of your awareness

hang in there
Peace