Am I There Yet?

[Wendylon]

We did agree to check in more regularly to see how we are. Actually that's how she started the convo. I told her I am ok. I don't need her, but want her; and am hopeful this crisis can be a blessing in disguise.

That all sounds great.

I did ask if she was simply waiting for the holidays to be over and then file, she believingly said no.

In an ideal world, you wouldn't have asked her that question but nice that her response is so reassuring.

It would be good if she got the sense that you weren't so focused on her. I may be wrong but I can imagine that she feels in the spotlight. Maybe it's just the impression I get because you're focusing a lot on her in your posts here.

Let her initiate the next check-in and good luck DBing to the max.