The other thing I've noticed is since we told them and how it happened I'm completely detached from W. It kind of scares me but I could really care less about her right now. I feel bad about kids interactions with her but no feelings for her other then that. I hope it's only temporary but her coldness towards kids has flipped a switch in me I never expected.
Spartan, you're hurt. So your detachment might be temporary. This happened to me when my H left me on my own during the emergency I had with my mom. I felt completely alone. I felt he didn't (or had never cared) about me or my mom. The feeling lasted for weeks, until I expressed my feelings and he told me his point of view. That's when I started to see things differently. However, sometimes I remember how he behaved and get this really bad feeling...
What clues does your W give you that she's "ticked off?" A look? Words? Are you mind-reading?
