Just reading your last couple of posts.

You do realize that you can detach and remain friendly with your W?

Detaching does not mean moving on. Here is a link to help you understand what detaching is:

Developing Detachment

At the beginning of my sitch, I misunderstood what detachment meant. I was under the impression that it meant to move on.

Me:45 ExW:48
M:04/97
3 Bombs & 2 ReCons
1st BD 11/10
D Finalized 4/20
D-16 S-14
Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa