I am sitting here considering this. On one hand I could detach and move on with my life. That isn't going to change my wifes mind. That is something only she can do. On the other hand, I can in fact become her friend. I can enjoy time with her and better show her how I have changed as a man. Again, this won't change her mind. Only she makes that decision. But, wouldn't I be in a better position to show her how I have changed if I can keep her closer without pursuing or being threatening? I "think" that was my DB coaches plan, basically removing the guilt and the chase so that she could settle down and see things more clearly....would love to hear some major input on my sitch. I really don't want to make any more major mistakes that I will regret later. I also don't want to end up being hurt more than ever.
