Feel betrayed by my own son

[AJM]

I agree with Hopper on this one. You should tell your son you're sorry for lashing out and recognize that it's not easy for him. He should never have been put in a position to have to choose between one or the other parent. Regardless of how or why. He should respect your feelings, but he should not have to pay the price for what happened. That's too much to ask I think.

I understand why you feel that way, if that helps. You were hurt and betrayed and that doesn't just go away. It hurts. It'll hurt for a long time. And any intrusion on your family will also hurt. But don't ask your son to share in that hurt. He has enough of his own, my dear.

Make it right with your son and let the rest go. You were treated badly and he did you wrong. But it's over now. You have a chance to still enjoy your son and grand-kids and if you really really want to have some sort of revenge, live a life worth living without ex in it.

Peace,
AJ