So, my H texted me about his snow-shoveling project and said that we could just let the snow melt. There is a considerable amount of snow with ice on top--almost impossible to move and of course will not melt. We're expecting 4 more inches tomorrow. People might request a showing of the house, and they will not be able to get in the way the driveway is now.
I suggested to please check it out and let me know if he really thinks the snow will melt. In the past, this would've made me upset, but I would've bottled it up. I would've called the snow company behind his back. I feel like doing the same this year. But I won't. I will wait. Today I remembered what it's like to be married to my H. We do have very different approaches to solve problems. If we ever get to be together again, I'll have to figure out how to "merge" our styles while being open and honest.
