When tapestries of life get tangled in the loom.

[MrBond]

"Frankly I didn't even think of the question of the discipline of kids before she went to fish for that today."

Seriously? You're still dismissing that? What she stated was true and you actually backed it up with your retort.

"she goes to tell the story of an argument we had in August 2009 (sic) where violently expelled her off hte car and I drove off and let her on the side of the road and then came back."

Was it true that you left her on the side of the road?

"I only ate pasta, rice and patatoes."

How much of this is true?

"I made her do renovations in our apartment, make her carry bags of cement when she was pregnant.
I made her push my car also."

Was this true?

"I don't accept that she takes care of the child's eczema and acid reflux."

You never mentioned any of this with us about your child. As a father of a child with eczema, it's a BIG deal. I asked you previously how well you knew your son. And you didn't mention any of his health issues.

"I spent all my free time with sports and video games (I went twice a week to ping pong)."

Not true. You mentioned how much you "sacrificed" by not going out and doing the advertursome things you used to. Which implies that you did spend much of your free time on your own activities. I believe this was addressed by the posters here earlier.

"I am not interested in my son, and I only use the visits to seek reconciliation with her."

We all saw that in your posts, so this is true.

"I gave back the son with dirty diaper,"

Ah yes, this was true. I believe I even told you you should have changed his diaper BEFORE handing him back. Do you even know how to change it now?

"and after my four unsupervised visits he lost sleep, cries, lost appetite and becomes agressive."

That may be true because you haven't been in the picture much and he sees you as a stranger.

"The money I gave her was for her to buy a car (I have an email which states it's for our son, not for her!)"

It's obviously for her because you son doesn't drive.

"She pays her mom for rent and for keeping the child, as if."

How do you know that's not true? It's not your role to judge.

"I am not happy about her not reconciling"

This has also been expressed by you here.

"and I told her I want to escape with our son."

I can see some parts of your earlier posts where this might have been implied.

"to name a few libels..."

Each of these items hold truth to them. It would be extremely unwise to constantly dismiss her concerns. When are you going to get that?