Frankly I didn't even think of the question of the discipline of kids before she went to fish for that today.
Of course I am a violent person, and she goes to tell the story of an argument we had in August 2009 (sic) where violently expelled her off hte car and I drove off and let her on the side of the road and then came back.
I also was stingy with food for her and the baby. She often was hungry. I only ate pasta, rice and patatoes. (good I found an email saying I couldn't wait for the sushi that night and I would grab wasabi on the way home)
I made her do renovations in our apartment, make her carry bags of cement when she was pregnant. I made her push my car also.
I don't accept that she takes care of the child's eczema and acid reflux.
I spent all my free time with sports and video games (I went twice a week to ping pong).
I am not interested in my son, and I only use the visits to seek reconciliation with her. When I understood she would come back, I threatened her with asking him for 50% of the time, and that it is all that's all about.
I gave back the son with dirty diaper, and after my four unsupervised visits he lost sleep, cries, lost appetite and becomes agressive.
The money I gave her was for her to buy a car (I have an email which states it's for our son, not for her!)
She pays her mom for rent and for keeping the child, as if.
I am not happy about her not reconciling and I told her I want to escape with our son.
to name a few libels...
Me:34 ; W:28 Son: almost 2. Married : 14 March 2009 DBomb : 18 June 2012 Separated since Jan 2012 (different countries) Same country and city since July 2012