My d10 lost it on her mother last night. They fought for over an hour. d10 is not accepting things even though W is telling everyone (her family and our friends) that the kids are fine. At the 45 minute mark W came to me and asked me to get her out of her room. I was told by 2 counselors and a coach not to interfere with her R with kids. I have always for years had my W back when kids were insolent with her and a couple months ago finally detached from that. It is hard, but it is what I was told to do. W is frustrated with this and of course blames me. She is a WAW and seems she cannot deal with R's on any level and walks away. That is their nature...run or bury head in sand. After an hour (at 1:00am), W just left d10 there crying and went downstairs and sat with the dog for most of the night. d10 wanted to talk to her sister (d14) so I let them have some privacy for a few minutes and d10 came to me and wanted to sleep in my bed. She held me for most of the night. W tried to be all cheery with d10 this morning and d10 ignored her. My d10 called her selfish. She really let her feelings be known last night. This is crazy.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
