"There are many false truths, but the worse for our case : "I said that physical punishment for children is okay, etc...and I have been raised in a family used to violent physical punishment..etc.. and she is concerned for his safety etc.." When all I maybe said in a conversation years ago was that I didn't agree with parents too lax, and that reasonnable spanking is okay for children with age capable of reason."
How can you not see what you're doing and did in the past? It's like myself and others have told you. She felt that you dismissed her concerns before and this is a PRIME example. In your comment alone to her, you put down her parents (therefore implying her family isn't up to your standards) and that you believe in spanking (which she doesn't). You dismissed her entirely. Now all these things are coming back to haunt you.
I don't see where she lied in this. You told her exactly what you believed and she just repeated it.
Can you put down more of the things she wrote about you?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.