"she meant and apparently W told her she would get a house with a pool in the backyard just for her"
Spartan the WAS are also known at times for being the "Christmas Parent". They spend and buy things on them due to guilt. My exw did the same thing, whatever D wanted she got.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”