My W and D went away for New Years Eve. This will be the first time I am not with my D on this holiday. The plans were very secretive and my D was threatened that she would not be able to go if she told me about them. Anyways there gone I don't know if I handled it right. Eventually my W found out I knew. I told her I over heard D telling a friend.
I didn't mess with her plans. Instead on Christmas I gave my D a gift card so she could buy her own souvenirs. If past history means anything I know my W doesn't budget that into her travel plans. I just hope she's allowed to use this money on herself and not be con into sharing with my SILs 22 year old D.
I miss my D and on Christmas night I asked my w if she still wanted a D. The answer was yes. I am sorry but I think my DBing will soon be over.
