Stop The D

[mamabird]

Thinking of you today Spartan. I hope you can take comfort in the "script" part of what your W said. My WAH has said much of the same. His own mother left him when he was a young teen and so that is the way he deals with problems too. It really is a script for people who are not strong enough to look in the mirror.

I am so sorry for your children but you sound like you're doing a great job comforting them. Mine are starting to worry too, but we've decided it's best not to say anything until H is really ready to move out, if and when that ever happens. At least in my sitch, H is a wonderful father and has not abandoned his kids.