The issue my wife had, now my XW, was basically that I didn't take initiative to live my life to the fullest. There was absolutely no physical/verbal/psychological abuse/substance abuse. We respected each other, we took care of our responsibilities when it came to working, income, bill paying, cooking, cleaning, etc. All household and daily activities. What did it was really that I was not fully living my life, I was stressed because of work and didn't get up off my butt to make new friends, to suggest things to do on the weekend, to go out on my own or with my friends to give her some alone time, etc. It may not seem like a big deal, but it was... Yes, now, as is usually the case, after the D I have got on all that stuff, made new friends, got up and started doing things in my life. I already know the why's, and I know they why's on why I didn't do those things. I'll keep reading I just still don't know what "DBing" is...or is it just what I've already been doing since the D?
